A couple walking hand in hand through the white streets of Mijas, Spain
marriage retreat · mijas, spain

The Marriage Reset

Reconnect with the heart of your marriage by hitting the reset button — five transformative days on Spain's stunning southern coast.

Future event coming soon$3,000 per couple
the invitation

If you could hit reset, would you?

Hey married couples — we have a question for YOU. If you had the chance to slow down and hit the reset button on your marriage, would you? Are there things you'd love to change? Fixes that you know need to be made, but you're just too "busy" to fix them?

Over time, life pulls us out of sync. Busyness, distraction, and distance creep in. Statistics tell us that nearly 42% of married people are unhappy and unfulfilled — and divorce rates in Christian marriages hover near 33–40%. But we at The TABL firmly believe that it doesn't have to be that way!

Marriage isn't just about staying together and "enduring" 50 to 60 miserable years; it's about joy, Kingdom purpose, adventure, fulfillment, and learning to connect in rhythm. It's about being in step and on the same page together. Sound impossible? It's not. It's actually God's plan for marriage.

So what if you could step away, get intentional, and reconnect — not just with each other, but with the heart of your marriage? Join us for five transformative days on Spain's stunning southern coast as we rediscover the fullness of God's design for marriage.

Over these five days you will:

  • Restore the foundational rhythms that keep every marriage healthy and thriving.
  • Explore tools for emotional attunement and rediscover how to enjoy one another — from daily conversations to shared dreams.
  • Discover a passionate faith together through worship, prayer, and soul care — learning to listen to God's voice together and invite Him to guide your relationship in every season.
  • And yes — we're going there: honest, honoring conversations about sex and intimacy, and how to cultivate a life-giving physical connection that serves both spouses and reflects God's design for closeness.

This retreat is for every couple — newlyweds to long-time spouses — who are ready to pause the noise and hit reset. Expect beautiful moments of connection, walks through the romantic streets of Mijas, daily sessions of practical and spiritual learning, and intimate worship as you seek God together and RESET your marriage.

Some marriages need deep root work, and some need just a little trim. Come experience the Holy Spirit for your marriage, in whichever state you find yourself. Questions? Reach out at info@thetabl.org.

meet the team

Married couples, served by marriage veterans

Briana Rene

Briana Rene

Founder, The TABL

Read Bri's story

Briana and Josh shared a strong, joy-filled marriage and raised four beautiful children together. Their passion for strengthening marriages has always flowed from lived experience, not theory. While their marriage was already healthy and thriving, Briana now carries an added perspective — one shaped by eternity, hope, and heaven's nearness — offering what God taught her and Josh through years of obedience, love, loss, and unwavering trust in Jesus.

Andrew Shearman

Andrew Shearman

Teaching

Read Andrew's story

Andrew has been married to Mo for 60 years, with 3 children and 6 grandchildren. After a successful career in industry, Andrew has spent 50 years in ministry — from supporting pastors across Eastern Europe to helping start the World Race and pioneering G42, a leadership academy in Mijas, Spain. Andrew and the team now seek to influence young and older generations to press into all that the Lord of the Harvest has for them and their families — to finish the race and hear, "Well done, My good and faithful servant."

Chris and Tara Martenson

Chris & Tara Martenson

Marriage Ministry

Read Chris & Tara's story

With over 30 years of combined ministry experience, this husband-and-wife team carries a deep passion for seeing marriages healed, hearts restored, and lives transformed through the power of the Holy Spirit. For eight years they served together in Soaking Prayer Ministry, and they have been personally impacted by the Love After Marriage experience — attending the conference and later hosting one at Bel Pres in Bellevue, Washington. At the core of their calling is a desire to see marriages thrive — not just survive — through healing, restoration, and the presence of the Holy Spirit.

good to know

Frequently asked questions

Are flights included?

No. Travel to and from Spain is the responsibility of each participant.

Do you need a visa to go on the retreat?

No — Americans are allowed to travel up to 90 days within Europe without a visa.

Is safety a concern in that area of Spain?

No, Mijas is a very safe area and full of English speakers if you need help or support.

Are any meals included in the cost?

During the retreat week we provide five breakfasts, four lunches, and four dinners. The remaining meals are yours — go out, explore the town, and date each other. Your room includes a fully-equipped kitchen (small stovetop, small oven, and fridge), so you can also purchase groceries if you'd like. Travel days bookend the week; food on those days is up to you.

Do I need my passport?

Yes — you will need your passport, and it will need to be current through the end of your stay.

testimonials

Marriages met at their lowest, restored in Christ

"Our marriage retreat in Mijas, Spain was truly a life-changing experience. … We met amazing couples and leaders who poured so much wisdom, encouragement, and practical guidance into our marriage. The counselors provided real tools, exercises, and techniques that we could immediately begin applying in our relationship. … One of the most impactful parts was hearing Brianna's heart. Even after the heartbreaking loss of her husband Josh … she chose to walk in obedience and continue the mission. Her courage and wisdom reminded us not to take a single day with our spouse for granted. … We are beyond grateful for this experience and would recommend it wholeheartedly to any couple who wants to invest in a healthier, stronger, and more Christ-centered marriage."
A retreat coupleMarriage Retreat · Mijas, Spain
"We met Josh and Bri when our marriage was really struggling and they both were such examples to us of Christ's love. When we felt there was no hope they interceded and always pointed us back to Jesus. Our marriage is a testimony to God's miracles, grace and forgiveness — and we love sharing that with other couples to encourage and give hope for restoration. All glory to Him, the Father who loves us endlessly and is FOR marriage and family!"
Jon & Becca SwardReceived Marriage Counseling
"Josh and Bri are truly some of the best humans we know. They have taken the time to see us, hear us, and show us what really matters… love. We wouldn't be where we are today without their guidance and the blessing of strong Christian mentors in our lives. They're not just friends — they're family."
Bruce & Kaite DulleaReceived Marriage Counseling
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Pricing: $3,000 per couple, covering lodging, breakfasts, and local transport to and from the airport. Each couple books their own airfare.